Low Libido

by Me
(Ky)

Been married for 5.5 yrs, have 1 child that is 4. Libido starting sinking about 6 months after baby. In the past 4 yrs I can count on one hand each year the times we have had sex.

How long do I go on like this? Am I the victim? He told me today that I guilted him into sex, that he does it sometimes when he doesn't even want to. I don't want that at all.

To top it off, he watches porn ALL the time, I catch him. He tells me he is 44 and that he can do what he wants. I tell him if he has the desire to watch those women, why doesn't he have any desire for me....It ends in a yelling match.

He watches porn for entertainment purposes only. That's his excuse. Do I leave him? I wonder anymore. We have grown apart that's for sure. I don't sit around waiting for my next sexual encounter, but what wife doesn't want to feel loved, and wanted.