Womens Sexual Health - I'm Glad I'm Not Alone In This Struggle!

by Anonymous
(CA)

As I was reading all of these posts, it made me feel better knowing that I'm not in this frustrated state of mind alone. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and talking about getting married.

My sex drive is in 5th gear and his is in reverse. We have sex MAYBE 1 time a week. When I ask him if we can "have some fun" he rejects me and that hurts so bad. I know he finds me attractive but being turned away all the time has built up a lot over time.

Sometimes he wants me to give him head and finish with no sex. I stopped doing that since there was no satisfaction for me in that! I cry a lot before I go to bed because it does feel like he doesn't want me.

I love him with everything I have but I don't know if I can have little to no sex for the rest of my life. I suggested a medical "aid" and he got offended. I'm frustrated and not sure where to go from here.